My dad recently passed away so I now don't know who should walk me down the aisle. I have an older brother, and while that may seem like the next logical choice, he and I don't really get along and I honestly don't feel any sort of connection to my brother. I worry that if I don't have my brother walk me down the aisle my mom is going to get upset because all she wants is my brother and I to be close to each other.
My other options are walking myself, but writing in the program that my dad is symbolically walking with me. Or asking my families really really close friend who has been friends with my parents for as long as I can remember and I grew up referring to him as an uncle. I truly see him as a second father and he has shared in many important moments in my life.