I need some help! I work with a small group of people, around 12 . I am not close to all of them, however I am very close to a few. How do I invite them? Do I invite everyone and their spouses or do I just invite those that I am close to and hope the other ones don't find out? I feel awful not including everyone, but we are trying to keep our guest list to 250 and we are pushing it...any suggestions?