My mom and I have seem to have gotten closer since i have had my son. I know she wants to be included in the wedding planning(which is going to be September 15th, 2012), but the things I want is not want she wants. I talk about what I want to do food wise and she says "I got that covered". When I talk about the music we want in the ceremony she told me since we are having a church wedding that we have to have someone sing and someone play the piano/organ or it will look tacky. I tried to compromise with her and agreed to have someone sing but she is still saying that we have to have someone play. Any ideas on what is right or what I should say to her?