My FI is in the Nat Guard and I want to have a Patriotic themed wedding but I don't want it to look tacky and 4th of july-ish. I know my girls will be in blue dresses with red flowers. But I'm not sure about table clothes and other decore. We are getting married outside and the reception is inside (kinda of barn look on the outside but really nice and open on the inside.) It's kinda casual but I want to still I a formalness too it. What can I do to find a balance? Any thoughts and ideas would be helpful!!!!!