FI picked out tuxedos for our bridal party and he chose for our fathers to wear black tuxes, ivory shirts and a black tie and vest. Well, FFIL already has a tux from his eldest son's wedding (almost 15 years ago). It's a bow tie, white shirt and a cumberbund. FFIL refuses to rent a shirt, vest and tie since he already has a tux. He told FI he'll only wear it if FI picks it up and pays for it. Seriously, like he has nothing else to do this week!? What should we do about this? FMIL agrees with us but FFIL is being very stubborn about it. I'm pretty offended myself. It's our wedding and this is what everyone else is wearing. He will stick out like a sore thumb. Also, I think it will make our pics with our parents look silly. I don't know if I should be upset that he will stick out in pictures or just let it go. Like I said though, FI is furious and really hurt by this. Is this really asking a lot???
Thanks