So Yesterday it was Tasha's man today apparently its mine. FI and I are long distance we met years ago through a mutual friend and blah blah blah things changed last summer. He lives near Toronto I live in Denver, we make it out to see each other every other month or so. I'm headed up to Canada end of the month to sign our contract for our venue and spend some time with him yay
I've met his parents a few times before he and I became an item so we were talking this morning the conversation looked like this:
Ryan: Want to see my mom and dad when you come visit?
Chandra: Sure sounds good I havent seen them in a while
Ryan: Right
Chandra: Maybe you might want to invite your mom along with us on Friday so she can see the place we're getting married
Ryan: Oh Ummm.....hmm I'm pretty sure she's working
Chandra: Its 3 weeks away you might want to offer
Ryan: uhhhmmm yeah, well...hmmm
Chandra: Why are you fidgeting?
Ryan: Oh well I might want to tell my mom we're more then friends then
Chandra: Ya think?!?
Ryan: Well I havent told her, you know how she is.
Chandra: No I don't know how she is. She doesnt even know I'm a girlfriend?!?
Ryan: Ummm no not exactly
Chandra: Honey....when were you going to tell her the day before the wedding and hope she's free?
Ryan: Well I told my dad he knows.
Chandra; Great! thats wonderful. Back to mom
Ryan: Right well I was thinking when you and the kids come out for christmas that might be a good time to tell her
Chandra: Christmas? Are you off your nut?
Ryan: She'll be happy
Chandra: I have a meeting to get to but we are soooooo revisiting this conversation.
2 hours later I get a text: So I sent my mom a text let her know that we're talking about marriage.
He texted his mom an engagment announcement?!? I want to shake him so badly. The poor woman I've gone from friend to fiance in 20 minutes, she has no idea whats going on and she got it all via text?!?
