I am not religious and I was not picky about who would be performing the ceremony at my Spring 2010 wedding so I agreed to let my parents ask their pastor. (My parents are paying for the entire wedding.) I've just told my fiance the pastor from their church is available to perform our wedding ceremony. After finding out the pastor is a woman, my fiance said his parents would not approve of a female officiant. He also said he would prefer a man to do the ceremony.While I really don't care who does the ceremony, I am very liberal and believe in equal rights so this kind of got on my nerves. I understand that some religions believe that only men should lead a service, but at what point does it become blatant sexism? However, I am not hell-bent on having this particular female pastor. Should I humor them and consider trying to find a male pastor? Can I tell a pastor "nevermind" because she's female?