The guys were supposed to plan the stag for FI to be on May 15th- it's now April 29th and nothing has been done. They totally dropped the ball and now there isn't going to be one. FI's brother didn't want to do one in the first place and I really don't think many of the guys were interested in planning one either so I saw this coming a mile away. Unfortuantly our best man is overseas and he's the one who knows how to plan one and wanted to do it. He and his wife (matron of honor) had been saving money for it for a while but the guys didn't seem to want her help when she tried to get things going in her husbands absence. I just feel bad for FI that his guys couldn't step up and do this for him. They said they're going to plan a night out but I'll be shocked if they actually communicate with each other and throw something together.