I am supposed to be getting married April 2, 2011. As of now our wedding has been cancelled. I have not officially starting calling people to cancel but I am ready to. My future mother in law is really starting to grate on my nerves. I have dated the FH for 6 years, and she was nice at first. Two years ago we had a major issue and didn't speak for 3 months. Finally I just gave up and forgot about it and went back around, because my FH wouldn't stand up for me. For 2 years, I have faked a friendly bond with her. I do not like this woman at all. Now she wanted to make my wedding cake and suprise me at the wedding with it! Finally she sent me a text that was so rude, and told me who I was going to invite to my wedding shower! I love my FH so much, but he will not stand up for me! She sends nasty messages about me to people that we know, and I have seen these messages! I don't know if I just need to get away from the FH or get over it. I can't take much more though! What do you all suggest.