I posted awhile back, but have a new question since we may change up ideas. We are thinking about just having 25 people, immediate family and closest friends, at a local upscale restaurant, with the ceremony and apps/drinks on the patio, then dinner and cake in a private room. They have a fire pit on the patio that we could use for smores and mingling after. We would just have an ipod playing background music during dinner. Do you think that would be ok, that people wouldn't get bored? (Most would know each other). I don't know if we should think of activities or something, or just count on the fact that everyone is an adult and there would be good food and wine and they can chat and socialize!