Bear with me as I rant...
My father has a girlfriend whom he's been with for 5 years. We'll call her Crazy for the sake of this post. I've never been overly close with her, and even less lately, because she has been pulling some serious childish behaviour about her first grandchild, and the fact that my brothers and I don't consider our father to be the baby's grandfather.
Fiance has a mother and stepfather, whom got married this past summer (don't worry this all ends in a questions), and have been together for 15 years, or something crazy like that.
My etiquette questions are:
1. Am I obligated to put dad's girlfriend on the invitation, or can I just say "and guest". For any other person who has a S/O but not engaged or married, we are just writing "and guest"?
2. Can I list fiance's step father in our programs, and such without having to include the crazy lady?