My dilemma is choosing my second bridesmaid.....I have already chosen my maid of honor (my sister) and one other bridesmaid (my best friend and cousin) but I'm having trouble choosing the second bridesmaid. Initially I was going to choose a good friend of mine who I've know for almost 20 years but we have become distant over the last year and when I told her I was getting married her reaction was not at all what I expecting. On the other hand I could go with a family member...who I've had differences with in the past but have become much closer with over the last 6 months and her reaction to the wedding annoucement was amazing.
So do I go with the friend I've know the longest even though we are not as close anymore or the family member who I've recently become close with and I know will be there in the future?