Is the Knot.com turning into mean girls?

countrywedding0318 · October 2012

What the hell is with people lately? Ive read so many posts where instead of giving HELPFUL advice they are just putting down the poster or the question that was being asked. If you dont have anything nice to say, why even take the time to say it. People who come here and ask questions while planning a wedding are stressed enough they dont need other memebers making them feel like their post was "stupid"

This is not high school so stop acting like mean girls.

Viczaesar · October 2012

So where'd you get burned?

countrywedding0318 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_is-the-knotcom-turning-into-mean-girls?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:92ec0537-0818-4603-9bc6-168bba2f691cPost:c08df6ad-0618-4ddd-b74f-812a63a89c12">Re: Is the Knot.com turning into mean girls?</a>:
[QUOTE]So where'd you get burned?
Posted by Viczaesar[/QUOTE]

I actually didnt, nor would i take it into account. I come here for advice, not bashing or BS . but i dont like to read a post and see a bunch of negative stuff. Weddings are exciting times in peoples lives and it needs to stay that way

Viczaesar · October 2012

Oh. Yawn.

AdeleDazeem · October 2012

Do you think you're the first person to say this? Do you think this post is actually going to change anything?

Look, sometimes things get harsh around here. I think there are times when it's unnecessarily harsh, but I think there are also times when it's definitely needed.

The basic rule of thumb is to not be an idiot, think of your guests first, and when you post, be sure you want HONEST opinions. If you don't, don't post it.

Also, you can't change how each person posts, but you can post the way you'd like. I don't really like snarky for the sake of being snarky so I don't do it. If you don't want to, then you don't have to either.

cwaggoner07 · October 2012

OP, you can save yourself the trouble and just go read how well this thread went for the OP:

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_is-it-just-me-2

These threads get started all the time and they always go over really well.

rachelm13 · October 2012

Boring. Didn't we already see this show a few times?

HobokensFury · October 2012

Here we go again.

samantha24p · October 2012

Yawn..... Don't know if I'm bored or tired of this

peekaboo2011 · October 2012

On Wednesdays, we wear pink.

lyndausvi · October 2012

I want examples.

Most of us do provide helpful, yet honest answers. My motto is "If you are not willing to hear ALL the answers, don't ask the question"

rachelm13 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is the Knot.com turning into mean girls? : Three times in the last week. This network needs some new programming.
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

I mean if trolls are going to start fake shiz they should at LEAST be original!

cwaggoner07 · October 2012

Wanna do something fun?
Wanna go to Taco Bell?

kwuertz · October 2012

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[QUOTE]What the hell is with people lately? Ive read so many posts where instead of giving HELPFUL advice they are just putting down the poster or the question that was being asked. If you dont have anything nice to say, why even take the time to say it. People who come here and ask questions while planning a wedding are stressed enough they dont need other memebers making them feel like their post was "stupid" This is not high school so stop acting like mean girls.
Posted by countrywedding0318[/QUOTE]

OP, if you feel the women here are rude, I recommend using weddingbee.com. In my experience, people on those boards have been much nicer as a whole. Most people here are only trying to be helpful, but there are a few who, in my opinion, come across pretty harsh (haven't experienced it myself, but have read it on some boards). I use/read both boards but find WeddingBee to be a bit more welcoming, especially to new posters.

pesematology · October 2012

Haha oh nothing has changed this is great.

zitiqueen · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Is the Knot.com turning into mean girls? : OP, if you feel the women here are rude, I recommend using weddingbee.com. In my experience, people on those boards have been much nicer as a whole. Most people here are only trying to be helpful, but there are a few who, in my opinion, come across pretty harsh (haven't experienced it myself, but have read it on some boards). I use/read both boards but find WeddingBee to be a bit more welcoming, especially to new posters.
Posted by kwuertz[/QUOTE]

We're welcoming too. We're just not going to validate crappy ideas and rude behavior like WeddingBee does.

marriedfilingjointly · October 2012

God, Karen, you can't just ask people why they are white.

marriedfilingjointly · October 2012

Countrywedding made out with a hotdog.

RebeccaB88 · October 2012

Sometimes you have to get really blunt with people in order to try to make them see how bad an idea theirs is, or how it really might affect those around them. Usually the ones who latch onto a really rude idea and defend their right to do it to the death are the ones who are most stubborn about seeing reason, and who come across as really self-centered and snotty. We return fire with fire in order to try to keep them from making abject fools of themselves, destroying relationships with their friends and family, and ruining their wedding day. If someone cops an attitude, it's fair game to cop it right back. Being a bride doesn't give you the right to treat people like crap, but some people really do see it that way.

cwaggoner07 · October 2012

oh my god, that was ONE time!

mcda04 · October 2012

I don't think TK is mean, People here are just honest while weddingbee advice is almost always fake. normally they just go with the OP.

Ali092011 · October 2012

Is butter a carb?

audrewuh · October 2012

Peek knows everyone's business. She knows everything about everyone. That's why her hair is so big. It's full of secrets!

peekaboo2011 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]Peek knows everyone's business. She knows everything about everyone. <strong>That's why her hair is so big. It's full of secrets!</strong>
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

<div>Please tell this to my hair.</div>

bridalmarch · October 2012

I always wonder what people who complain about meanies on message boards do in real life when someone is mean to them.

samantha24p · October 2012

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[QUOTE]I always wonder what people who complain about meanies on message boards do in real life when someone is mean to them.
Posted by bridalmarch[/QUOTE]

I was wondering if people are as sensitive in real life as they seem online.

GoodLuckBear14 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_is-the-knotcom-turning-into-mean-girls?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:92ec0537-0818-4603-9bc6-168bba2f691cPost:6827245c-437e-4f5d-8721-5b4e4dccbe50">Re: Is the Knot.com turning into mean girls?</a>:
[QUOTE]Bridalmarch, they scream, burst into tears, and stamp their feet. The Knot isn't full of mean girls....<strong>just bitter old</strong> <strong>hags who hang out here when we get bored torturing our poor husbands.
</strong>Posted by RetreadBride[/QUOTE]

{{{{Pointstosiggy}}}}

sonya+adam · October 2012

Four for you Glen Coco; You GO Glen Coco!

rdavidson827 · October 2012

One day at band camp........

sonya+adam · October 2012

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[QUOTE]One day at band camp........
Posted by rdavidson827[/QUOTE]

<div>*sigh* Wrong movie...</div>

drandreasalazar · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_is-the-knotcom-turning-into-mean-girls?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:92ec0537-0818-4603-9bc6-168bba2f691cPost:c08df6ad-0618-4ddd-b74f-812a63a89c12">Re: Is the Knot.com turning into mean girls?</a>:
[QUOTE]So where'd you get burned?
Posted by Viczaesar[/QUOTE]

haha

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