We are somewhat overwhelmed by where to even start looking for wedding officiants. We want a non-denominational ceremony and want it to be kind of light hearted and unique. We also want it to be upbeat and funny at times, but are struggling with having a complete stranger marry us. Problem is, we don't know anyone that could officiate either. Then the fiance tells me that he'd also prefer the officiant to be male (I have no idea why, but I'll go with it). Any help would be great.