Ok so I have a good friend from high school who got married not to long ago and I was her maid of honor. But we aren't really that close, and I don't really care for her to be mine. I already know who I want to be my maid of honor too. I just don't know how she is going to take it? Personally I don't really care to much for her being in my wedding. She actually through people in her wedding just because. I think it should be people that you are really close with that are in your wedding. Should I just suck it up and tell her she isn't my maid of honor but have her as a maid? Or should I pull a fast one and tell her she is my matron??? IDK