My BF and I have been "mutually engaged" for a while now. We have began the brainstorming planning process and everything. The only thing that is holding us back from being officially engaged is the ring. Kind of.
His grandmother has an extensive jewelry collection and told him that he can check out her rings and choose whichever one he wants to give to me. I love the idea, and he says that he really does too.
I think the real reason might be that he is afraid of my daddy. I'm the baby of the family, and my dad is... well... a military man. He's pretty intimidating, and I understand that. My dad really likes him, but BF is so afraid of asking him because he's afraid he will say no. My dad has been dropping hints that he knows its coming soon.
It is very important that he asks him, because when my sister got married, they didn't ask my father for his blessing and he was deeply hurt for a long period of time.
How can I help to make it easier on my BF?