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Re: who invented bachelor parties?

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_invented-bachelor-parties?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b43b3f7-d775-415e-8bcc-d83c26644e74Post:d5855aa2-6c9d-4665-a59a-4169d930f700">Re: who invented bachelor parties?</a>:
    [QUOTE]i guess the b!tches are on here at all times of day. In larger metroplis' the strippers are actually good lookin. THink NY, Vegas, Atlantic City. I didn't say they want to bone him or any of the men. It's more of a question on opinions about naked women being paid to give men boners. YOu wouldn't sit back and chuckle if an acquaintance got naked for your man and did a lap dance. Why is it different, or is it at a strip club. From the looks of you salt...ur man probably needs strippers to keep your sex life interesting.
    Posted by isnatural4me[/QUOTE]


    oooh!  Salt, I wouldn't take that one sitting down?
  • From the looks of you salt...ur man probably needs strippers to keep your sex life interesting.
    Posted by isnatural4me


    wow. way to be dirty.

    --- /> she insulted me first.
    Furthermore Angie, if there's nothing wrong with it. y'd ur husband feel the need to ask if it's ok with you?

    I don't take issue with women who genuinely don't care or enjoy strippers themselves, to each his own. However, I hate the ones who swear!! that their precious man is above this or isn't really that interested in the strippers.

    I have an issue with any woman being naked in front of my man. TO the person that asked about porn...unless the women come through the tv, i'm not trippin. though, if it was excessive i'd be disgusted as well.
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    You've clearly never met a real stripper. I know strippers. I used to be friends with some. They are not girls my FI would be interested in boning.

    I live in a major metropolis, too, with lots of so-called pretty people.
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  • Now, I know that I do NOT need to jump to Salt's defenses here as she obviously does not need it, but, OP, your post WAS stupid.  She just calls 'em like she sees 'em.  Also, those girls don't want your FI. 

    I am guessing that if your regular repartee is as ignorant as your text speak filled posts, then your FI isn't much of a catch anyway.

    And since it's Friday, f@ck you.
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    [QUOTE]i guess the b!tches are on here at all times of day. In larger metroplis' the strippers are actually good lookin. THink NY, Vegas, Atlantic City. I didn't say they want to bone him or any of the men. It's more of a question on opinions about naked women being paid to give men boners. YOu wouldn't sit back and chuckle if an acquaintance got naked for your man and did a lap dance. Why is it different, or is it at a strip club. From the looks of you salt...ur man probably needs strippers to keep your sex life interesting.
    Posted by isnatural4me[/QUOTE]

    That was a low blow.

    You asked for opinions and you got them. Just because they're not the same as yours doesn't make them wrong.
  • Natural

     Uncalled for & your immaturity shows. No wonder you have issues with bachelor parties. With that attitude I'm sure you have issues with everything.

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  • Oh, I see.  So because she insulted you first, it's ok to call her ugly and assume her FI is disatisfied with their sex life?  Your logic is mind boggling.

    And you're an asshat.  I can't wait to hear what you have to say about me.
  • Haha I called you an idiot...whch is apparent based on every post you've ever made and you come back with a bs dig about my appearance?

    Just keep digging your own grave, sweetheart. I'm laughing at you over here.
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  • oh good grief!  Natural, you're being ridiculous and its not very becoming.
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  • I hate to agree with the OP after she has made such an idiot of herself, but I don't see the problem with not wanting your SO to go to a strip club. And I'm sorry, but while just looking may be the same as porn, lap dances aren't. It doesn't necessarily mean the woman is insecure, or jealous, I don't think those are the only reasons to not want your SO to touch another naked girl.

    For the record, I am totally okay with strip clubs and porn, but not with lap dances. If BF was into that, I wouldn't tell him no, but I wouldn't be happy about it. He hasn't been to a strip club the entire 5 years we are dating though, and he knows I woudln't mind, so I don't think he cares that much either way.
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  • And while you are at it, if we are having a beauty contest, why don't you post up a picture of yourself? I'm sure you are just SO HOT.
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  • Salt - maybe she mistook the "boner soup" reference in your sig as some sort of remedy for your non existent sex life?
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  • I don't see anything wrong with not wanting your sig other to go to strip clubs either.  What I thought was stupid was the self-righteous rant calling out the people who don't agree.
  • Salt's sex life must be awesome, haven't you heard of her famous boner soup?!
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  • MsMerryMac-
    I agree that your man coming home to you is important and not cheating is even more important, but there's a lot that can happen in between that and it wouldn't be okay.

    As for all the whiners re: me calling salt unattractive. Please recall

    "No this is a different, yet equally as stupid girl, Fish."   - Salt


  • Natural, my dear, two wrongs don't make a right.  But two Wrights DID make an airplane.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_invented-bachelor-parties?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b43b3f7-d775-415e-8bcc-d83c26644e74Post:d5855aa2-6c9d-4665-a59a-4169d930f700">Re: who invented bachelor parties?</a>:
    [QUOTE] From the looks of you salt...ur man probably needs strippers to keep your sex life interesting.
    Posted by isnatural4me[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Wow... </div><div>
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_invented-bachelor-parties?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b43b3f7-d775-415e-8bcc-d83c26644e74Post:d5855aa2-6c9d-4665-a59a-4169d930f700">Re: who invented bachelor parties?</a>:
    [QUOTE]i guess the b!tches are on here at all times of day. . From the looks of you salt...ur man probably needs strippers to keep your sex life interesting.
    Posted by isnatural4me[/QUOTE]

    Hold the fuuck up.  That was dirty and uncalled for.  No one attacked you personally.  What is this about?  We're biitches?  What?  This biitch has pissed me off. 
  • you're clearly not proving her wrong.
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    [QUOTE]I hate to agree with the OP after she has made such an idiot of herself, but I don't see the problem with not wanting your SO to go to a strip club. And I'm sorry, but while just looking may be the same as porn, lap dances aren't. It doesn't necessarily mean the woman is insecure, or jealous, I don't think those are the only reasons to not want your SO to touch another naked girl. For the record, I am totally okay with strip clubs and porn, but not with lap dances. If BF was into that, I wouldn't tell him no, but I wouldn't be happy about it. He hasn't been to a strip club the entire 5 years we are dating though, and he knows I woudln't mind, so I don't think he cares that much either way.
    Posted by amalama[/QUOTE]

    "Technically" the men aren't supposed to touch. whether or not that rule is always enforced is something entirely different.

    I don't have a problem with strip clubs at all, however strippers in a hotel room ... um, no.
  • Well, your post is pretty ridiculous.

    Also, salt, I'm totally freaking hot, in case you're wondering.


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    We never say, hey you ugly hoar, your husband doesn't wanna hit that.
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  • I hate the ones who swear!! that their precious man is above this or isn't really that interested in the strippers.

    Hate all you want -- but it sounds like you are just jealous of people who are in secure and trusting relationships. As hard as you may find it to believe, some women do KNOW that their FIs/Hs are not interested in strippers - at. all.

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    [QUOTE]Natural, my dear, two wrongs don't make a right.  But two Wrights DID make an airplane.
    Posted by JK10910[/QUOTE]

    LOL. I've never heard that. I will use that soon though!
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  • Salt after the 10th time you claimed to not care about the 1 comment between mymany, not sure why you felt the need to keep bringing your looks or mine up. Get the hell over it.

    Someone smarter than others on here did say that it is lap dances she has a problem with and I just realized that is my issue too, but I can't know for sure there won't be lap dances going on, which is why i have a problem with the entire scene.

    If your SO goes to a strip club and has every intention not to have a lap dance thats fine, but if his friends buy him one...he's not gonna get up and run. it's just ridiculous and unrealistic to expect that.
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    [QUOTE]Natural, my dear, two wrongs don't make a right.  But two Wrights DID make an airplane.
    Posted by JK10910[/QUOTE]

    Hahah, how did I miss this? :D
  • I have sat here for the past few minutes blankly staring at this box trying to come up with something to convey to OP how terribly low and utterly dumb she is. Then I found resolve in the fact that it will never sink in on a person like this. That is my advice ladies: Just laugh and move on from the trainwreck.
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    [QUOTE]I don't see anything wrong with not wanting your sig other to go to strip clubs either.  What I thought was stupid was the self-righteous rant calling out the people who don't agree.
    Posted by JK10910[/QUOTE]

    I guess I just see her point with the "All that matters is who he comes home to", etc. Because while I know my BF would never sleep with a stripper, me not wanting him to get a lap dance doesn't really have anything to do with that. And I don't think the fact that they are getting paid and don't want to bone him either change that.
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    [QUOTE]. As for all the whiners re: me calling salt unattractive. Please recall "No this is a different, yet equally as stupid girl, Fish."   - Salt
    Posted by isnatural4me[/QUOTE]

    There are boundaries.  You crossed them.  Your rant <em>was</em> stupid and it was stupid of you to come back like a petulent child and insult someone's appearance.   You're ridiculous and I feel sorry for your FI.  I actually do.
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