I have a cousin, who was getting married in 6 months and her parents told her it was customary to have a sister to be the MOH. The parent were insistent that the older sister(whom is already married and the younger sis was the MOH for her), be the younger sis's MOH. The sister was not too extremely thrilled of the groom to be, but things seemed ok. As things moved along towards the wedding, the sister has . The groom have African-American s married into his immediate family. She(MOH to be) has made comments about the grooms extended family(which is of no relation to the MOH to be). Some of the remarks have been extremely unkind and hurtful. The MOH to be has made racial comments about not wanting to be related to N**gers, after they had gotten engaged. Why accept being a MOH if this was her position on the groom and you do not support inter-racial marriages and she has an issue with blacks?? Now imagine if she became pregnant and due around the time of the wedding. This seems to be dramma of a MOH to be to hurt the bride to be and over shadow the wedding. What should my cousin do? People state it is rude and inconvievable to ask someone to step down from the wedding party. Even after making racist remarks of the groom and his family.