I'm the MOH and am attending with my partner. I was thinking b/t $500-700 for the both of us. Is this reasonable, too little, over the top? I read threads that people should give what they could afford. My job situation changed recently (for the worst) so this is a bit steep for me at this point in my life but anything less I feel wouldn't be ok with. Am I ok with $500 only? I'm not asking my boyfriend to chip in as we just went to his friend's wedding 2 weekends ago and he covered the entire gift (it doesn't help I have 2 more weddings immediately after this one where the bride is my friend so I'm offering to cover the entire gift - maybe this should be a different thread altogether b/c now that I"m reading this, I am thinking my partner should offer to help, esp knowing my financial situation right now?!) The bride isn't a family member nor is she my best friend. Its a smaller wedding (80 people).