My daughter who will be 7 1/2 is going to be my flower girl. She is not going to carry the regular basket with petals but a smaller bouquet that matches the BM's. The BM dresses are black tea length. I don't have colors really picked out for our wedding other than fallish and rustic. My bouquet is dark reds, orange, brown and tan. My BM and FG bouquets are going to be red sunflowers. This dress I like also comes in black but I don't know if I want her to match the BM or wear a separate color.
Here is the dress, color of the sunflowers and then a sample bouquet (of yellow sunflowers).