invitations were already sent out and my FI's mother added on two extra sets of guests the week before they were going out, now she wants to add one two more sets (non-family members, her sister in law's brother and sister). she is not paying for anything, my parents are. she is inviting more people than my family and our friends combined. when i brought this up to my FI he asked me if it we were keeping score now. his mother didn't tell me or my mother about the add ons, she just said it to my FI for me to write out two more invitations. she didn't want to bring it up on sunday when she, my mom, and me were packaging all the invitations up! she didnt want to get me mad so instead she's making me fight with my FI instead of asking my mother if she could add more people. what do i do? i don't want these people invited and it's not fair that my parents can barely pay for what they are doing now (she also is inviting 30 children when i said i didn't want kids.. she said well i'll pay for them and i very clearly said, this isn't a money issue, this is an adult event) and she keeps adding people. the last set she added on were the in-laws of her nephew! i should add that my mother cut numerous family members and friends off the list because it's over 300 and i wanted a small wedding.
