Hi all!
I'm new(ish) around here. I was engaged a few years back to someone that never panned out, and I lived for these message boards. Now that I'm with someone who is planning to propose here soon, I'd love your advice.
Here's the jist, we both very much want to get married to one another. We're madly in love and have been together over a year. However, my BF is stationed in Alaska at the moment while I am in Arizona, working and building my life. He still has 2.5 years of service left with his next service station unknown. We both want to get married before he is out for financial reasons and considering he may deploy. He is planning to move to Arizona after he's out since he's from here and come and live with me. Knowing that, there are no plans for me to leave my home and life to live with him where he may end up. Are we crazy for thinking of getting married perhaps 2 years before he's out? That would mean our first two years of marriage would not be together more than trips and weekends here and there (depending on where he's stationed next).
I have no friends with similar situations so I'm not sure who else to ask. I'd love your thoughts on the situation.