I just need to whine a little bit and I know this is stupid without the whole long background story, so I apologize in advance.
As you know I've been home since Tuesday taking care of DH. I get a call from my mom this afternoon (as I was trying to take a nap, but not yet asleep). She chit chats about me being home, and how DH is doing. Then about 3mins in, says that she needs to say something but doesn't want to start a fight.... she tells me that I'm angry. I obviously have anger and tension towards her and (always the victim) she doesn't know what she could have done for me to be angry at her. My reply was "I honestly have no idea what you are talking about."
Then she goes on about how it must be something from the wedding (in AUGUST for God's sake) and that both my MOH and MOH's mom pretty much confirmed that I don't like her or am mad at her (at the wedding).
I'm so confused. We spent both Christmas and New Years at my parents house and everything was fine. I am pretty different from my family IMO, but I try to keep it simple and avoid arguments/issues as much as possible... almost to the point of ignoring them altogether. I'm sure they're hurt that I'm not eager to call and visit every free minute, but this crap is exactly why.
I'm very sick of being told that I'm angry/b!tchy/mean by people that I don't have regular contact with. I'm just like numb to the BS at this point.
Sorry for the whining and thanks for letting me vent somewhere. I just needed to get that out!
Blindsided by Mom Knottie