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If you go to the left hand side navigation and hit the arrow you can see local board and then go to BAY AREA. That should cover San Jose. You can also try NorCal. The Knotties there are very helpful.
Good luck. I've actually been to a wedding in Cali with a Mariachi band and everyone loved it!