If it were entirely up to me, I would only have a maid of honor. I did not want to deal with the coordination of bridesmaids and groomsmen BUT I agreed to having BMs to please my fiance... he really wants groomsmen.
I have to come up with 5. I have my 4 lined up and the last one I haven't talked to yet is a cousin of mine. I would very much like to have her participate however she has a couple of tattoos that are quite noticeable on her arms and chest. In my personal taste, I do not like her tattoos. Pretty much any (nice) dress we choose for the BMs will showcase her tattoos. Would it be rude to ask her to cover them w/ makeup? Or should I just suck it up & not say anything to avoid family drama?