I know this can be a hot topic here, so I apologize for beating this dead horse.
We had our bachelor/bachelorette parties this weekend, and his went to a strip club, which I was okay with.
When I said I was okay with it, I was thinking of the stippers on the stage. To be honest, lap dances never even crossed my mind. So when he told me that his best man bought him 3 lap dances, it's really been bothering me. The idea of other girls, ones that he definitely found attractive, being in such a position really makes me uncomfortable.
He didn't do anything wrong, I am not mad at him. I guess I just wish I never knew about this. I don't know what goes on in those rooms, and I didn't ask, because I don't want it to bother me even more. Obviously, that is not working.
Do you have any advice on how to get myself over this?