First off, my FI and his family are really into keeping the family big and consider anyone who hangs out with them as "family"! For example: The first few weeks that my FI and I were dating, they considered me family... I thought it was cool. Of course, my family has a different approach to it!
Alright, so here's my reason for posting this. My sisters husband has a brother, I don't know what the correct name for him is so I just call him my brother-in-law. He's cool, and we talk a lot. He is sorta like the brother I never had. He gives me advice and when I am sad, he knows how to make me feel better. Well my FI does not like him for reasons I don't know.
I of course wanted to invite him to our wedding, but my FI says "no". And it bugs me so much! So I gave him the annoying saying he always tells me "But, he's family..." Apparently that wasn't good enough. I have yet to find out why he doesn't like my BIL.
What should I do? Not invite him? Or keep trying to figure out why he doesn't like my BIL and then find a solution?
~Soon to become Mrs. O'Kane!~