Okay, so I'm about 3 months out from the wedding. My sister is not going to be able to attend for legal (jail) reasons (long story and I'm pretty upset/hurt, but whatever, I'll have to get through the emotional baggage on my own.)
Now I have to figure out what to do about the logistics of the wedding day. Do I ask another person to be in the wedding? Everyone I would ask to be in the wedding knows of her current legal issue so they'll know I'm asking because she can't attend. Plus, I feel kind of bad asking someone on such short notice. They'd essentially have to get their dresses like, this weekend, since we're on a long lead time for shipment. FI says I should ask my friend and co-worker who I'm actually pretty good friends with, but I'm not sure.
What is your advice? I'm looking for options and I'm drawing a blank.