Ok so the bride recently sent out a mass email to the entire wedding party announcing she bought supplies for her centerpieces and invitations and wants us all to come over one night during the week to help her.
She didnt ask or anything just said so when you all are free close to the wedding we are going to get together and do this.
Ummm i am all for helping and all but i feel like its courtesy to ask right? The bride has been awesome up to this point. But between this and her MOH doing the same thing for her shower im feeling pressured to put in more time that i really dont have. I work 2 jobs and have only been at the one for 2 months now.
Is this wrong of me to feel inclined to say no? I feel pressured to do it since its what the wedding party is "supposed" to do according to her MOH...i love the bride and usually very willing to offer to help when i can like when she recently moved...but how can i politely say no without looking bad?