Ok, so we're taking my parents and FI's parents out to brunch the day after the wedding for Mother's Day. Our treat, you know, for Mother's Day. Now that my Grandma IS coming to the wedding, we'll obviously include her too.
Here's the problem. My aunt (dad's sister, grandma's daughter) is my grandma's transportation. So it would be rude to exclude her, IMO. But if I invite her, I then feel obligated to invite HER daughter and her boyfriend. The issue is that this was supposed to be a mother's day thing, and none of FI's aunts/uncles/cousins are invited. We can't just invite them all because they're 70% of the guest list.
My friend suggested I talk to my cousin and let her know what's going on and suggest/ask her if she wants to take HER mom (so Aunt, grandma's transportation) out to brunch there. But I kind of feel like it's rude for me to ask that, and I have no idea how to word it. Halp? Or other ideas?
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