I've been asked to provide a guest list for my shower...and I have a dilemma.
There are several close friends and family members who live on the other side of the country that are invited to the wedding. I would clearly not expect them (or want them to feel obligated to try) to travel all that way just to come to my shower. But on the other hand, I wouldn't want them to feel badly that they weren't invited either...
Do I send them an invitation?