I made a mistake by picking out the wrong person to be my MOH and I want to have her just be a BM but i dont know how to tell her. Im getting married in 4 months and my MOH is not really interested in helping out. She has not talked to me in over a month, completely ignored my birthday, and hasn't bothered to even call me yet alone text me. My true best friend is currently a BM and i need her to be my MOH, it would not feel right if i did not have her stand next to me. She has been there through everything and she deserves to be my MOH.
I need suggestions please, i want this process to be as smooth as possible.
thank you!