Hi! I just need some opinions and advice on how to handle a certain situation. Long story short, I am going to have 4 bridesmaids for my wedding next May, and my fiancee does not like someone who I want to ask to be a maid. I have known this girl since high school and we have had our ups and downs, but I still value our friendship. She is also a hairstylst and I wanted her to do my hair. The problem is, she is very good friends with my ex boyfriend's new girlfriend who has been giving me problems for the past 2 years, and she was also recently married and I was not invited to her wedding because she had a small intimate affair. She has asked me 3 times since I have been engaged to be my maid of honor and invited herself to my wedding because she assumed that she would be doing my hair. My fiancee thinks she is a manipulative and a horrible friend and that I should choose someone else. I have about 9 months left and I want to start planning now so I dont stress later on. Any help and feedback is appriciated!!