I thought about us having an E party but the more I think about it, I'm not really up for it. I already feel distanced enough from certain people in my life and I feel like it would just do that even more. I don't even know if I want to do engagement pictures especially if we end up doing a wedding or family session. We had plans to do a session of our kids and maybe some as a family so I guess it could serve as both. I'm just not feeling the love about the whole engagement from my mom mostly. And I think that's what is bothering me the most. She seemed more excited about my sister's last minute engagement and wedding within about a four month time span, than what my FI did. He even asked my dad for permission, he included my mom in on things as far as telling her his plan. But when I told her on the phone she was so non chalant and didn't really act happy, and when I showed her my ring and everything, still no real reaction. I don't know I kind of feel jipped. Like she favors my sister more for some reason, and I feel like that is going to happen when it comes time for the wedding. Everytime I talk about anything wedding related she goes back to "Well your sister did..." I'm the baby of the family but still, I'm my own person. And my mom would shoot me if I didn't have a wedding, but yet I feel it won't be up to her "standards" of what she had in mind. I don't know what to do. Should I say something to her?