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Bridal Shower

MandM2000MandM2000
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Throwing my friend a bridal shower, I'm her MOH. She doesn't want a B-party or anything, just wants lunch. And I'm throwing her this bridal shower. Do I have to invite her other maids to be part of the shower? I wanted to do this as something special without them nagging to have what they want.
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Re: Bridal Shower

  • Meegles4Meegles4 member
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    It might be nice to see if they want to be a part of planning, but they may very well be happy not to have to take on the responsibility of planning. You definitely should invite them to the shower itself, though (by your OP, I'm not totally clear if you're asking if you should have them help plan or simply invite them).
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  • Summer2011BrideSummer2011Bride member
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    Generally the BMs are invited to all bridal showers. I'll be honest, if I was a BM and I was not invited to a shower, I would be hurt/offended.

    You can host it by yourself and therefore, not get input from the other girls. Just send them invitations like you would the other guests and make the decisions on your own. If you do that, you shouldn't ask them for money though. You might ask them though if they'd even be interested in helping put a shower together. Do you not get along with them? What makes you think they'd nag?


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  • wilmaandfredwilmaandfred member
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    Uh, I'd be pretty f-ing pissed if I was close enough to the bride to be invited into the WP, but the MOH then didn't invite me to a shower for my sister/friend/whatever.
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  • MandM2000MandM2000
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    I just think they would want to take over the whole planning of the shower.
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  • gurrlballa10gurrlballa10
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    As opposed to you, who wants to dictate everything about the wedding, and don't think the bride can handle any of the planning without you?
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