I was raised by my grandparents with little influence from my mother. (long story, but she and I are not very close.) My grandparents legally adopted me and I only list them as my parents for any information I have to provide. When it comes to seating everyone at the ceremony, I do not want my mother to upstage my grandparents and walk in like my FH's mother would. How should I sit everyone? We are not doing unity sand/candle so it will just be walking in. Any suggestions?