Ok, so for the wedding, both my family and fiances family decided that we don't want to buy/order desserts but everyone can pitch in and bake, since they all love to bake. But then we had a huge dinner thing at my parents house with our families and after church a couple weeks later, fiances mom came to my mom and said, "oh, you guys cook and bake so well! you can bake for the wedding too!" Obviously my mom is NOT ok with that and neither am I. My fiance is the only boy in his family and he's the youngest, so obviously, his sisters should be helping with baking, especially since one of them wants to open a bakery. I understand that they have kids, but so do all of my relatives!
I mean, I wouldn't have taken her so seriously when I found out that she said this other than for the fact that for her oldest daughters wedding, they didn't help at all either, other than with paying. The other family did all of the work! Not cool. And now I don't know what to do. I mean, I wouldn't really mind if we were having a small wedding, because that would mean less baking, but our wedding is gonna be pretty big and fiance and I are paying for it AND MIL wants it bigger. I am quite frustrated right now
