So my sister is my MOH, but she lives on the other side of the country and I will only see her maybe twice before the wedding and because she's a teacher, she'll only get here a few days before the wedding. She's MOH because she's my only sister and quite frankly, I think it would hurt her feelings if she wasn't.
So my best is stepping in and filling MOH's shoes while MOH is MIA. I feel like I should ask her also to be a MOH. How do you do that without hurting first MOH?