So a little back round info. My bf and I have been together for just under 2 years (in may) and we dated a few months before I committed and then after committing I moved in 3 months later. The relationship is good. We get along great, we truly are best friends as well as lovers. We live in canada.
So we are on vacation last week, hanging out in the ocean and he turns to me and says "So its not matter of "if" we get married, its a matter of when its going to happen. I think you really should consider a destination wedding" So... after a bit of bantering back and forth, we decided to do a semi (in the usa not down south like mexico) destination wedding. So we came to middle ground of doing it in vegas(not elope) or san diego. These two spots are very dear to us for different reasons. So last night he says, lets start looking at options for a venue to get married and prices and perhaps start planning stuff out. I just looked at him and said "uh... ok sure but we aren't engaged yet, in fact you never even asked me if I wanted to marry you" his response "Ill ask before the invites go out, no rush" I just looked at him. I didn't know if I should be offended or what...
So... anyone else have this happen? Should I take it heart or with a grain of salt? Should I keep looking at wedding stuff or just wait.... A little insight would be great. *sigh* I'm a little bummed that he would ruin a surprise (like asking the question) with wanting to get a pre planning in on our wedding....
