My MOH is getting married! She's been engaged to her FH for about 4 yrs, but they have had a lot of student loans to pay off and havent really had time or finances to plan their dream wedding. She asked me to be her MOH. Good news is they're now both working solid full time jobs. Bad news: her dad is in failing health. Fast. Less than 6 months fast......
Me and one of the other BMs have been trying to work out the best way to suggest to her that if she wants her Dad to be there to see her get married and be a part of her wedding, its a race against the disease and diseases dont have feelings or the courtousy to postpone taking a life for the sake of planning a wedding. She and her FH were thinking June or July of '13. We're not sure her dad is gonna see Christmas. Me and the other BM are going to see her Saturday night over dinner but we're not quite sure what to say. We're thinking small family ceremony at the family home, someone to take photos, potluck dinner, and dress nice in suits and cocktail dresses, then we can have the gratification of her dad being there to see her get married, even if he can't make it till the reception in June or July.... though, having a wedding reception that close to a funeral makes me even more weary.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I'