I have a friend who is getting married soon. She and her husband want money for their future house for gifts (she has a fund you can donate to) and she says she only wants cash. So fine, I planned on giving her cash for the wedding. Anyways, her shower is coming up soon, so I asked where she was registered. She told me bed bath and beyond because they give cash for returns. She doesn't want gifts, so she plans to register and take everything back. I'm appalled. That's so tacky. So I'm debating, should I give her a gift card (you can't return a gift card, right?) or buy her something from a random store that she can't return?