My fiance and I are supposed to get married on 2-13-10.Which is less than a month away! We have already made invitations and just sent them out a few days ago. The only thing is that our preacher just let us know that I will not get to walk down the aisle, which also means no need for flower girls or ring bearer or bridal party! He basically wants us to be sitting in the audience and just come up together when its time.
You know...all my life, I have dreamed about walking down the aisle. And now because of the church and how they do things, they are saying I can not walk down the aisle. It just almost feels like its hardly a wedding anymore. Also...what are our guests going to think about this? When the bride doesn't walk down the aisle.
So what I really want to do is just forget about the whole thing and do the wedding somewhere else with another officiant. But the only thing is...I sent out all the invitations already...so what am I supposed to do? call all of them and just tell them to disregard it and that there will be another invite coming soon? Its less than a month away! and I am getting very stressed....! Should I just leave it the way it is and just deal with it to save everyone and myself a lot of stress and confusion, or should I make my wedding like the one in my dreams and change it all after I already sent out invitations and its last minute notice!!??? Help me please!!