Sorry for posting two questions in a row, but I just remembered I wanted to ask about the etiquette for this.
So, as with many families, there are a fair handful of divorced relatives. I'm already stressing about having to ask my dad to be at the wedding because my mom and ex-step-mom are also invited (Lord, the drama!). But, I'd also like to invite two ex-aunts. I'm still very close with them, but I don't know how my uncles would feel if I invited them. Things seem to be amicable between them all, but at the same time we have a "Don't talk about them" rule in our family. However, I am close with these two women and want to share my special day with them.
Is there etiquette on whether I should actually invite them, and what would be a good way to handle the situation? I'd like to minimize any potential fallout that I can.
Thanks in advance!