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Hello my Knotties

I know I've basically disappeared for the past week. Here's what's up:

A week ago Sunday morning, JJ and I received The Phone Call from Hell informing us a friend had passed away. I have never been so shocked in my life. Aspen had just turned 21 years old, and was vacationing in Mexico with her boyfriend after finishing exams, when she had a heart attack (essentially). I feel like the more time passes, the more real this becomes. I feel like she's playing a sick joke and will come home, and be like, 'Haha, SURPRISE!!', even though I know that won't happen. We had a few friends in last night, and I swear, all we talked about was Aspen. Honestly, this whole thing sucks...a lot. And her funeral date is yet to be determined, due to the unusual circumstances under which she passed away (the family had trouble getting her back from Mexico, as well). 

So, this past week was kind of a whirlwind. I was crazy busy with Christmas prep (since I just finished exams for the term), and nightly phone calls with friends. So, that's where my life is at right now. 
He pretty much had me at "hello".
-- PS I agree with whatever Jeana said --

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  • edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry to hear about your friend.  I'll keep you in my thoughts.
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    *hugs for Anne and JJ*
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    Oh no, I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm sorry about your loss. I will keep you both and your friend's family in my thoughts.
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  • edited December 2011
    oh, how sad! i'm so sorry for your loss! you're in my thoughts!
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry for your loss, hun! *hugs* I'll keep you all in my thoughts

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  • edited December 2011
    I'm sorry to hear about your friend... sudden deaths especially of young people like your friend Aspen are so hard to handle.  Thoughts and prayers are with you and all of Aspen's friends and family.
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    edited December 2011
    I'm really sorry to hear of this, Anne! I'll be keeping you, JJ, and everyone connected to your friend in my thoughts. *hugs*
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry for your loss! I'll be keeping you and your friends family in my thoughts and prayers!
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