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Getting antsyyyyy

So, my fiance and I got engaged about 4 months ago, and the wedding planning is going great!! We both have our senior year of college left, we graduate, and get married this coming June. 

I am getting so antsy though.  Everyday, I am constantly thinking of how I can't wait to get married!! How do you calm these antsy feelings?? I wan't this school year to fly by so I can marry the love of my life :D Every day, I love him more Laughing
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Re: Getting antsyyyyy

  • Relax, enjoy your engagement period. Don't rush things. You have your whole life to be married to him.

    The engagement is suppossed to be a period of discernement and growth. Sit down together and talk with your FI about your dreams, visions for the future, etc. Do stuff you both enjoy, etc.
  • I'm in the same situation basically, except that we have been engaged for over a year and a half now.  I too was extremely antsy when we first got engaged, but have come to learn that time will fly by fast enough without wishing it to and worrying that it won't!  We'll be engaged two years in January and I can hardly believe it.  Don't worry so much about how far away it is - your wedding will be here before you know it!  Enjoy this time of preparation for you and your FI's lives together.
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  • I am pretty much in the same boat and have been engaged like 15 months now. I remember looking at my countdown when it said 800 some days, now it's down under 400. My advice is don't get to swept away in your planning that you forget the rest of your life. Don't concentrate on how far away the wedding is because it will only seem to move slower. 
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  • Have a budget, and a schedule.  You've got 10 months to plan and prepare.  Booking a venue ahead of time will help alleviate a lot of worries.  Try to pick a dress when you have just 6 months left to go. 

    And please, focus on your schooling.  It's really important that you finish.

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  • Thanks for the advice. We do spend a lot of time together. We are great about that.  And I am working very hard in school and working outside of school.  I have booked a venue and found a dress. A lot of the planning is running smoothly.  I just can't help shake that antsy feeling sometimes :P
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