So when my FI got engaged back in March, we started discussing the wedding party. I started by saying that it was extremely important to me that I have 2 of my brothers in the party, because he wanted to pick all the guys and I pick only girls. He has 4 sisters and stressed how much it didn't matter to him if any of them were in it. I pressed the matter for months to make sure he was positive on this before I started asking my girls and filled all the spots (we were having 4 of each). He was still indifferent about it so I went ahead and choose 4 girls, since I am not close with his sisters, I didn't choose them.
Well, now a few months later, his sisters are inquiring about who is going to be in the wedding party and now he thinks he should have put 1 or 2 in. We have been avoiding answering who the wedding party in because I realised it's going to look like it's my fault.What do I do? I am supposed to go shopping with my girls on wednesday, so they will obviously know they are a last minute addition if I do put them in. Second, we were really trying to keep the cost down and I don't want a lop sided wedding party, so he would have to add another guy.
And then how do we ask 1 sister and not the other 3? Is it cheezy to make one or two sisters readers when I have 2 brothers in the wedding party?
I need help ASAP! Any advice is appreciated!