So my sister was supposed to be one of my bridesmaids and i know she is self contious we all are but now shes not sure if she wants to be a bm cuz i am making the dresses and she doesnt like that pattern i chose or the fabric. honestley it doesnt bother me if she is or isnt a bm just as long as she is there! and i told her this but i cant get a straight anwser out of her if she wants to do it or not. how do i handle/coupe with this. its really getting agravating and i dont want to hurt her andmake the decission for her but i have done alot of catering to her and my mom and im done this is my wedding not theres and i just need advice on what to do!
Jake's future Wifey