My MOH and I have been best friends for 16 years. She has always been rather negative, but we still had a lot of fun together. Well, now the negativity is really starting to get to me. She says things to me like "no matter what you decide, DH and I will be here for you" - (like if I decide I don't want to marry FI, she'll be there for me). FI and I have never said that we were considering calling off the wedding. She just happened to be with me after FI and I had a fight - and it wasn't even that big of a deal.
So then yesterday she calls me and asks if my FI minds that the person standing up for me doesn't really like him (ie, she and her DH don't like FI). I was like - what!?!? FI and MOH have never seen eye to eye, but really? Basically I answered that I wasn't stupid enough to tell him that. But now my whole feelings about her have changed. I don't even know if I want her in the wedding at all. I'm especially pissed because when her and her DH were dating/enganged, I witnessed so many things and he even cheated on her while they were dating and she has the audacity to judge my FI?
I don't know what to do. At a complete loss. Help.