So a couple days ago in Lyz's Christmas post I went on a bit of a rant about my step-mom's sister. What I left out is that she then also (for about the 5th time since we got married) started going on again how we need to work on getting pregnant. She asked our ages (28 & 31) and said that it was time for us to start trying. She was like everyone has their timelines that they think are perfect and that everything will work out just as they plan and that just isn't the case.
Both Paul and I were like we don't have this idyllic plan all worked out, we just aren't wanting babies right now. She said multiple times on Christmas eve that we need to start trying. What if we don't have problems trying to conceive and I get KU right away? We don't want a baby in 9 months. Of course we won't know until we start trying, but why start before we are ready. To me that makes no sense. Sorry just ranting. This woman is annoying and I wish she would stay out of my sex life, especially while in front of my father.
I don't consider myself a prude but I think that talking about TTC and all that is very personal and essentially talking about your sex life. I don't want to be talking about that with my parents. To me it just creeps me out. Hey mom and dad I'm having a whole lot of unprotected sex!!!!! Yes, I know I am married, but when it comes to sex and discussing it with my parents I feel like I am 16. At this point I seriously think I would be nervous/ possibly embarrassed telling them that I was pregnant. It doesn't make any sense I get that, but I guess I just can't get over the fact that talking about sex or any topic there related with my parents is just straight up weird.