Does anyone have any feedback or opinion about Secrets St. James? My fiance and I are looking at both it and Sandals Whithouse. I have heard wonderful things about Whitehouse but no real feedback about Secrets. We are not big drinkers and do not want to be around a lot of wild crazy partiers. We want to relax and eat and sun! Any info, testimonials or suggestions would be great! Thank you ahead of time! FYI-We are going the first part of July 2012